Author: Harper Leigh
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Calm, Clear, Kind: Dating Boundaries That Protect Your Peace
Early dating can feel exciting. It can also feel confusing. Because you are not just getting to know someone else, you are also watching yourself.How you respond.What you tolerate.What you overexplain.What you stay quiet aboutWhat you accept too early because you want it to work. That is why boundaries in early dating matter so much.…
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Calm, Clear, Kind: Professional Boundaries Without the Heat
There is a common belief that boundaries have to be sharp to be effective. If you are not firm, loud, or visibly frustrated, people will not take you seriously. But in my experience, boundaries do not need raised voices or emotional intensity to “count.” They need clarity. They need consistency. And they need respect. In…
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Waiting is not Passive. It is Preparation.
Waiting is often misunderstood. It is framed as doing nothing, as sitting still until something happens, as holding your breath for the outcome you want. But waiting is rarely empty. Waiting is preparation. Not only for the outcome you are expecting, but for the outcome you may not see coming. Because life does not always…
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When Pausing Is the Work
Stop. Think about the last time you paused.Why did you pause.Was it because something needed time to be re-evaluated.Because something no longer sat right.Or because it sat exactly right, and you wanted to move forward with intention. We often treat pausing as a failure of momentum.A sign that something has gone wrong, or that commitment…
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Why Starting Later Can Be an Advantage
There is an assumption in our culture that progress should follow a straight line.Study as a young adult. Build quickly, settle earlyWhen someone begins again later in life, it is often framed as catching up rather than moving forward. But starting later can offer something that earlier starts often do not. Perspective. When you begin…
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Flourishing in the Second Half
The WordPress daily prompt today posed a question that requires some thought. What are your thoughts on the concept of living a very long life? As I get older, the idea becomes more appealing. I am 55 years old and have just completed my nursing degree, becoming a registered nurse. In many ways, I feel…
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Becoming a Registered Nurse at 55: It’s Never Too Late to Start Over
At 55, I have just gained my nursing registration. For me, that is proof that it is never too late to begin again. For a long time, this dream sat quietly in the background of my life. At times, it was strong and clear. At other times, it was almost drowned out by the responsibilities…
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